Mothering ???

I saw Juno a couple of weeks back and what struck me most about the movie was the ending.For those who havent watched it yet.Juno is a a movie about a 16 yr old girl getting pregnant and how she decides to give it up to adoption to this childless couple Mark and Vanessa.


In the ending, they show that Mark feels like he isnt ready for a baby and decides to divorce Vanessa to fulfil his dreams of being a "rockstar"(I think)...Anyway, now Vanessa is all ready to have a child but with no husband will Juno give it to her? Wouldnt want to give a "normal" family to the kid and then they show that Juno writes a note to Vanessa saying 'Im still in if you are in'...And then the baby boy is actually given to her.And why not?

Some people are just born to be parents.They just have it in them.They instinctively know what to do and how to behave with kids.Its so cute when they are with kids.They love kids and kids love them.Its a match made in heaven.They say parenting is one of the toughest things one has to do in their lifetime but to these people it just comes naturally!
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Maybe you have some friends like this.You keep asking if you have cold just cause you sneezed :) They can generally instictively tell if you are under the weather even all they have heard is you say hello on the phone. They will shout at you for being online too long and not getting enough sleep even though they themselves are online till wee hours of the night.They remember weird details of your life like something you told them as a passing comment..Something like your dogs birthday :D

Can you see the look in the woman's eye(In the picture)? Its so nice, so warm, so caring !!!! :)

But there are also people who behave less mature than their actual ages...Like small kids ..Dumbwits..And most often these are girls.They get on your nerves and then have this coy Im so innocent look on their face which is so IRRITATING.I cant stand them.

I think its better to be more mature than your age than you be less mature. What say???

12 comments:

  Lena

28 March 2008 at 22:38

i believe maturity should be there, acting immature all the time wont do good anyone, though sometimes you can act silly just for the sake of it. Just waking up a child in you just for a short while...
I am a person who would shout at you for not getting enough sleep even though i myself am not, but then i am the one who would ask the silliest questions and act weird at times just to have some fun with friends :)

  Lena

28 March 2008 at 22:39

btw how was the movie? am planning to watch it this weekend

  Matangi Mawley

28 March 2008 at 22:42

"more mature thn age.. less mature"

no.. i think they both ought to b in the right amt.. sometimes it irrtating too to see kids acting beyond their age..

good 1 bt!

  Comfortably Numb

28 March 2008 at 22:43

I usually am a lot less mature than I need to be! And I really dont care about that coz it lets me answer a lot of questions you see...same as in calling yourself crazy answers a lot of question to which you have no answer:P!

And somewhere down the line I think that people need to be somewhat less mature coZ the more mature they "act"/become the more macho they act and end up messing stuff!

Cheers!

  neha

29 March 2008 at 00:24

i think maturity should be balanced.......one should no when to be mature and when not....Ryte???

  Arjun

29 March 2008 at 18:18

definitely yes...
being more matured is better than being immature....
Atleast i certainly feel so....

Cheers..!!
Arjun

  Sid

30 March 2008 at 11:39

hey nice post...u hav a very well designed blog...keep it up

  unpretentious_diva

30 March 2008 at 21:26

[b]Juno is the name of Roman Female Goddess, a counterpart of Greek Goddess Hera. Juno is the Goddess of maternity who is supposed to take care and save the pregnant womens and infants[/b].

the picture is as beautiful as the title.

To be parent is Human.

To abort is individual right which I strongly support.

  C R D

30 March 2008 at 21:45

the adopting mother is more mature. shes a true mother..

is it a foreign non englsih film?

  Wanderlust

31 March 2008 at 23:32

nice post...
:-)

baaki sabi ne keh hi diya hai!

:-)

  a new philosopher is born

2 April 2008 at 09:01

nice post...i am definietly going to watch the movie

  WeirdISgooD2

30 April 2008 at 23:16

There is childish and then there is childlike. To know what to be when i think is innate, and comes with maturity. That said, i love balloons and cake and my birthday for precisely that reason :D