Rashi the ranter!

Sometimes I wonder, if when you love someone can it truly be a complete waste. Is there anyone in this world who doesn't deserve your love? Can we love people who cheat us, who beat us, who even abuse us? If we can't stop loving them, what do we do?

What happens when love instead of making you a better person, makes you a worse person? Starts causing pain? 

I agree that love isn't ideal always. There is definitely a break-point, isn't there? My naive self and my "experienced" self are in a constant feud. Sometimes, this one winning and sometimes the other one. 

Love, definitely isn't what I thought when I was 16. I know, probably, I will read this when I'm 25 or 30 and laugh at this stupid idea in my head. Or maybe I will be fighting the same battle. That actually sparks off another thought in my head. One of self-discovery. 

One problem most teens can identify is that of "finding themselves". Who am I? What is my personality? But do these questions really end with teenage? I doubt. I have given trying to figure out who I'm. All I know is that I'm complex and sometimes, unpredictable. 

Phew! Now, that I have ranted it all out, I feel better :D

11 comments:

  Tan

2 June 2009 at 22:18

New Template?? Looks good... but again, its the same boring PINK Color...

I dont know why girls like it so much... its more of a stereotype now!!

Anyways... Best of Luck :)

  Tan

2 June 2009 at 22:18

Be Happy Happy, as you new template is :)

  R.V

2 June 2009 at 22:19

Tan, it aint pink, it is red! :x

  Nik

2 June 2009 at 22:25

I found whom u wanted me to. Random venting out was a good step u took.... :P

I wud rather mention one thing. 'Lost identity' is not always seen in teenagers. It is the cause of many people who are diagnosed of depression at the age of 35-40 too!
It can crop up at anytime. Any age.

And about love. Your view about it is one of the most appreciated and common views hovering around. But love never goes to waste. NEVER. It helps you to weave the strands of the "unknown" feeling.

Tough experiences, yes , do trouble. But if it wasnt confusing, then it wouldnt be called LOVE!!!

Neway, nice read. Hope whom u were searching for likes it! :P

  mysterious gal

2 June 2009 at 22:38

Gal do i even need to give my views abt this post :P because we know it by now how twins we r when it comes to views :D

Neways my answer will be the same as i told u before....Love doesn't ever go to a complete waste...but then it isn't always as fruitful as it is in fairytale....so the answer is partial yes and partial no....Love teaches u many a things and if it hadn't be for those complexities in love...we wouldn't ever even know its LOVE....

and ya its true views changes with time...when i was 16 i believed in the fairytale romances...now i believe in the practical view of love....things changes ...life changes and we move on.....and its true finding urself and knowing what u want is the real quest which goes on till ur alive...because if u deciphered urself completely there is notin left...so life is abt deciphering oneself like the title of my blog :P

i loved this read of urs and the introspections

and u know already i m totally in love with ur template :D

  Satans Darling™

2 June 2009 at 23:12

I love the tempelate! Now lemme go read the post :P

  Satans Darling™

2 June 2009 at 23:35

Start afresh with a new template and a new life :D And fresh thoughts like the flowers at the top :)

  Indian Homemaker

2 June 2009 at 23:55

I think the answers to all the questions in the first para is in negative.

And it is sad if love starts causing pain, one better gt out...

  Arv

3 June 2009 at 07:45

Glad that you feel better now :)

take care... cheers...

  The Pink Orchid

3 June 2009 at 10:24

cool template Rash.. :)

and you know the answers to those questions better than any of us. :)

  Comfortably Numb

7 June 2009 at 00:54

For me. Yes. Love is a waste sometimes. We don't always stick to the right person. I don't know what love is. Maybe I will, sometime soon. But till then I maintain that live in it while you can. Try your best. If it still doesn't work out then nagging ruins it further.

Cheers!!

PS: Today theres too much 'love' around =P